Let’s Stop Asking Kids to Fit the System — and Start Fixing the System

Published on December 9, 2025 at 9:03 AM

Why Our Public Schools Need New Eyes, New Hearts, and New Ways to Teach Our Children

There is a whole generation of children sitting in classrooms right now who learn differently, think differently, and shine differently—yet they are being measured by a one-size-fits-all system that was never built with them in mind.

And the truth is simple: not every parent can afford private school, even when they know their child desperately needs a different way of learning. So what do we do? We change the system. We bring in what works. We stop leaving our kids behind and start lifting them up.

Because learning disabilities aren’t failures. They’re differences. And differences don’t need to be fixed—they need to be understood.

Bringing Change Into Public Schools — Starting Now

We live in a world filled with new technology, new research, and new ways of teaching. The tools are here. The knowledge is here. What’s missing is the willingness to rebuild the old system into one that fits every child—not just the ones who learn the “traditional” way.

This is what change looks like:

1. Classrooms Designed for Every Kind of Brain

Every school should have dedicated rooms where kids with learning challenges can go during the school day to:

  • get extra help,

  • finish assignments,

  • take tests with support,

  • and breathe without feeling rushed, embarrassed, or “less than.”

I had this growing up—and it saved me.
It kept me from falling behind.
It allowed my teachers to truly see me.
And it gave me a chance to succeed in my own way.

We need these rooms in every public school in today’s world, not just the lucky few.

2. Technology That Levels the Playing Field

We have tools now that didn’t exist when we were kids:

  • text-to-speech

  • speech-to-text

  • audiobooks

  • interactive digital learning

  • dyslexia-friendly fonts

  • quiet testing spaces

  • apps that help with organization, focus, and reading

Imagine how many children could finally breathe, finally learn, and finally believe in themselves if these tools were used in every classroom—not just when a parent fights hard enough.

Technology should be a bridge, not a privilege.

3. Teachers Trained to Understand How Kids Really Learn

Most teachers care deeply—they just aren’t given the training or tools to understand dyslexia, ADHD, processing disorders, or even sensory overload.

We need training that shows teachers:

  • how a dyslexic brain sees the world,

  • how some kids shut down from overload, not laziness,

  • how giving a five-minute break can save a whole hour,

  • how learning differences are not behavior problems.

Children don’t need to be “fixed.”
They need to be met where they are.

4. More Pathways for Students to Show What They Know

Not every child is a test taker.
Not every child can show their brilliance on a bubble sheet.

We need:

  • different testing formats

  • hands-on projects

  • oral exams

  • extended time

  • smaller testing groups

Give them more than one doorway to walk through.
Success should not be locked behind a single kind of test.

5. Built-In Work Time So No Child Falls Behind

School shouldn’t feel like a race everyone is losing.

Give kids with learning disabilities:

  • structured in-school time to finish assignments

  • small-group support

  • teachers or aides available to help

  • a system that prevents the “pile up” that so many kids drown under

This isn’t hand-holding.
This is equity.
This is dignity.
This is how you keep a child from giving up.

6. A Culture Where Asking for Help Is Seen as Strength

Shame has no place in a school.

Kids shouldn’t be embarrassed to walk to a help room.
They shouldn’t be afraid to admit they don’t understand.
They shouldn’t be labeled, whispered about, or made to feel different.

Imagine a school where getting support is normal.
Imagine a school that celebrates resilience.
Imagine a school that teaches every child that their brain was created with purpose.

That is the school system we deserve.

We Can Build This Together

Parents shouldn’t have to choose between:

  • paying thousands for private school,

  • or watching their child struggle in silence.

Public schools can change.
They can adapt.
They must—because our kids are worth it.

Children with learning disabilities are not problems to solve.
They are gifts.
Innovators.
Creators.
Thinkers.
Leaders.
Kids who see the world through a different lens—and that lens deserves space, respect, and support.

Final Thoughts

If we want a better future, we have to build better classrooms today.
If we want confident kids, we must stop letting them fall behind.
If we want equal education, we must stop teaching like every brain is the same.

I believe with everything in me that change is possible.
And I believe it starts with us—parents, teachers, and every person who refuses to let another child slip through the cracks.

Because when you give a child the right tools…
when you give them space to learn in their own way…

Their light shows up.
Their confidence rises.
And their whole future becomes possible.

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Comments

Diana
a month ago

I agree.

Conner
a month ago

This was beautiful.

Brandy
15 days ago

Thank you for reading and the kind words